Moving on after you are served breakfast or heartbreak especially if you genuinely love the person

It happens to everybody especially the first love. I had such experience also. I was down for years when my first love dumped me, more importantly she made jest of me amongst her friends. Later some other babes like 6 of them also dumped me. At a point I even thought I wouldn’t find love again bcos all my friends had girlfriends except me.

But today, I have some married Women eyeing me with many EXs making a comeback aside so many new babes that might be interested in me.

So, to move on is by firstly accept it as fate. See it as a phase. Since your parents find love, you would find one also that

Believe s/he’s gotten the new love partner and s/he’s not made for you. Have the mindset that your own wo/man will come in no distance time.

The truth is, no matter how ugly you are, guys/babes would always want to ask you out. Someone is salivating to have you already.

Don’t be hurt to the extent you won’t want to try new wo/men. Remove the mentality that those guys are only after your money or body with the intention to grind the already broken hearts to dust.

I know some guys would have asked you out or some ladies eyeing also since you guys broke up. It would be a mistake if you let the past experiences block you, you might end making the wrong choices.

  • Things don’t happen as we plan it. Avoid being indoor alone. Be in lively places to catch fun or learn skills. You can have new chances to meet new people when you are not indoor.
  • You might change environment or be the outgoing person. Changing environment makes you to meet new people. Going out also makes those that just relocated to your area to eye you.
  • Don’t act too desperate but also jumping into relationship. Take your time to study the guy or lady.

Look for these qualities

  • A wo/man that will promise you something and fulfill it on his own without any pressure or lobbying.
  • A wo/man that hates beating, jealousy.
  • A wo/man that would rather leave you and go home instead of shouting, insulting or beating you.
  • A wo/man that’s knows how to manage/balance his/her finances and you are included in his/her spendings naturally without any influence.
  • A wo/man that tolerate you while you are working to change yourself.
  • A wo/man that doesn’t carry religion, ethnicity for head.
  • A wo/man that’s gentle and put his family first – relationship/love
  • A wo/man that’s not influenced by his religious leaders or family members.
  • A wo/man that knows how to balance things and place the priorities right – love, family, religion, extended family.

Letting go is difficult for most people especially people in first love bcos it’s the first experience. Those who have had heartbreaks over time won’t be worried again. They would have developed anti-heartbreaks to it.

Heartbreak is an experience on its own. Even those playboys and girls got hit hard when the person they finally fall in love with breaks their heart. Imagine a playboy or girl asking for ways to move on.

Good morning